Some people think that children should obey rules or do what their parents and teachers want them to do, but others think that children controlled too much cannot deal with problems well by themselves. Discuss both views and give your own opinion.
[shc_shortcode class=”shc_mybox”]Young children are beginners. They have lots to learn and one of the biggest lessons they
must learn is how to behave or act in an acceptable manner. So, they need rules. When
young children have rules, they know what is expected of them. However, the extent to
which children have to follow rules is a very sensitive issue. In this essay I shall discuss the
benefits of imposing rules on children and the negative consequences of having too much
restriction.
Firstly, rules of behaviour create responsible and respectful children who in turn mature
into respectful adults. They know the value of respect for elders. They know the importance
of relationships. They know about their cultural values as well. This forms a stable society
which is virtually free from vices such as prostitution and drug abuse. It would be wrong to
say that having rules mars the problem solving ability of children. They, in fact, face
difficulties in a more mature and disciplined way. They are not lured by peer pressure and
refrain from acting on impulse.
However, if too strict rules are imposed on children then they may become rebels. They may
start doing just the opposite of what is told them to do. What is more, they may show
abnormal behaviour. They may fall into bad company or resort to drugs because of
frustration. Finally, imposing too strict rules destroys the individuality of children. They may
withdraw into a shell. This may suppress their creativity and as a consequence, they may not
be able to deal with problems well by themselves.
What is important is that parents and teachers should learn where rules are needed and
where it is necessary to give room to the children. Having absolutely no rules and letting
children do whatever they wish to do would also be wrong. They are not mature enough to
solve all problems and they have to be taught their limits.
To put it in a nutshell, I pen down saying that parents and teachers should impose rules on
children but they should know where to draw the line. They should be flexible and modify
the rules according to the circumstances.
Some people think that children should obey rules or do what their parents
Some people think that children should obey rules or do what their parents
Some people think that children should obey rules or do what their parents
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